Sunday, June 6, 2010
On Poems : Invictus
Invictus
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
William Ernest Henley
(One of my favorite poems that I learned when I was in high school. Reading this again, gets me going to face life conquests. For I am the master of my fate and captain of my soul.)
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Favorite Quotes from Favorite Books of My Favorite Writer
Corporate Crap Trap
In the corporate world where the Company or we ourselves abide to the unspoken rule that 'whether we like it or not we have to deal with it'. Cons - n work, we simply gain stress due to accomplishment of with impossible deadlines, deal difficult clients and bitchy colleagues. Pros - In every dealings we made others simply gained temporary or if you're lucky, permanent friends, companion, spouses and lovers.
We simply loose some and gain some. And that's how the world works!
Frenemies
There is a certain group of friends in my division, who were very much like the teen's mean girls. Like in the movie they have their lead mean girl, Girl 1, a married woman with 1 kid. Her hobby is to dish out every detail of her sex life, before and after her marriage. Girl 2, is the prettiest of them all, friendly and sweet - but very much of a bitchy aristocrat for having the balls of her bf. Lastly, Girl 3 is bit of a timid and shy girl, whose having an affair with her older and very much married Manager. The thing is, when Girl 1 and Girl 3 have a conflict; Girl 1, for being a snake, backstabbed Girl 3. In short, she spread the rumors of her friend, Girl 3, of her affair with their Manager. My heart went out to Girl 3 for a lot of things, her affair out in the open, her tasks unaccomplished because of no technical support from Girl 1 and depressed for being prejudiced in her workplace. Worse, Girl 2 offers no sympathy to Girl 3 and her Manager is mum about it.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
On Poems : The Road Not Taken
The Road Not Taken
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I marked the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
Robert Frost
Monday, May 10, 2010
More Cocktails...Please....
The Margarita
Ingredients :
1 Measure of Tequila2 Measures of Cointreau
Method :
2. Place on a saucer of salt to achieve the salted rim effect.
3. Then add the Tequila, Cointreau and lime juice into a cocktail shaker full of ice and shake well together.
4. Strain into the cocktail glass.
Additional notes :
For variety :
Alternate fruits and juice mixtures can also be used in a margarita. Many recipes call for a splash of orange juice. When the word "margarita" is used by itself, it typically refers to the lime or lemon juice margarita, but when other juices are used, the fruits are typically added as adjectives in the name; with lime juice or lemon juice added like a condiment (and a wedge of lime often added to the glass). Examples of popular combinations are:
- Texas margarita, with orange juice, and beer sometimes
- Raspberry margarita, with lime juice
- Strawberry or peach margarita, with lemon juice
- Mango margarita, with lime juice
- Melon margarita, often with melon liqueur such as Midori
- Banana margarita, with orange and lime juice
- Apple margarita, with Berentzen's apple liqueur
The Rum Cola
Ingredients :
2 oz. of Rum
1/2 juice of half of Lime
Cola (any brand will do)
Method :
2. Then fill it with Cola.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Virgo Profile
Virgo is the sixth sign of the Zodiac, lasting from August 24 - September 23. Ruled by Mercury. A Feminine Negative Mutable Earth Sign
Virgo and Independence :
Virgo is a very independent zodiac sign. They are fully able to put their intelligence to use and get things done for them. It is possible however that their narrow mindedness causes their creativity to suffer and they may lead regular routine lives. They may dwell too much on the past and over complicate things and this may limit their ability to move forward and confuse themselves. In conclusion, Virgos are able to be independent but the less evolved types will have difficulty if someone is not there helping them to achieve more and not be so critical of themselves.
Virgo and Friendship:
People look up to Virgo for friends because they are straight thinkers and solve problems logically. They are truthful, loyal and determined. Some people might find them cold or emotionally detached because they live in their minds, not in their emotions and feelings. It might be hard to pin down how a Virgo friend is feeling because they easily live in denial. A person who is able to read deep into another person will notice when Virgo is not well but if they confront them about it, they would rather retreat then talk about it. It is best to keep your emotional distance from a Virgo friend unless they open up to you first. Virgo might try to analyze and control a friend's life but only with the idea that they will improve their life, not purely for the sake of controlling. Be patient with your Virgo friend and understand that their recommendations are only to make your life better.
Virgo and Business:
Virgos are very intelligent; they have an excellent memory and a highly analytical mind. This makes them good investigators and researchers. They also have the ability to probe into a person's emotions and they can often see into people and detect what their motives are. This makes them great policemen or interrogators. Virgos are very good at problem solving; this is what they do best. They are confronted with a problem; they will pick apart the pieces and put it together in the proper order. They are rational thinkers and are good at settling other people's disputes and putting them on the right track for reconciliation. Any position that requires the above features, which is a very long list, is perfect for the Virgo. They keep the world in order.
Virgo Temperament:
Before a Virgo plunges into anything, from a problem to a vacation idea, they need to analyze all the facts and know all the details before they plunge in and make a decision. This makes them seem indecisive and slow. Virgo's perception is their reality, more so then other astrology signs. What they believe is what will be, if they have a negative outlook on life, things will present themselves to be negative and they will be very moody and isolated/detached. If they are positive, the same events that occur will be held in a positive light and they will be a pleasant, well adjusted person. A Virgo mind is a very powerful mind and they must have the proper attitude for their life to be happy and successful. Virgo needs to get in touch with their feelings; this is why they usually seem cold or detached. They are very prone of living in denial. They will say they feel okay or everything is alright even when it's not. This is an easy way out, the one thing that Virgo does not like to analyze is their feelings so pretending everything is okay is a good defense mechanism for not having to take a closer look at their feelings. Virgo has an unpredictable and sometimes unstable temperament.
Virgo Deep Inside:
They need to be organized in their mind, sometimes all their energy is taken from organizing their mind that they have a difficult time organizing their surroundings. They easily look too deep into an issue and over analyze what they percieve. Virgo is ambitious and strives to always know more and have more. This is in their eternal quest to bring order to chaos. Even if order is obtained from an outsiders' point of view, Virgo will not be settled for they have a very active mind that is always thinking and can never be silenced. Virgos want to be of use, they need to be important and essential to everyone in their lives and in everything they do. Virgo's major life lesson is to learn to trust in and have faith in the unknown. They have to understand that things in life happen for a reason that is not always known to them, they do not have to always know everything. They need to learn to calm down and not over-analyze a situation or event. Deep inside, Virgo is very sensitive and they need to be appreciated for all the things they do. When Virgo is is offended or hurt, they may never show it.
Virgo in a Nutshell:
Virgo exists in the mind, everything is inside. To the world, Virgo presents a calm and collected exterior but on the inside, nervous uncontrolled intensity in the mind, trying to figure things out, how to improve everything, analyzing and thinking. Virgo can tire itself out without even moving! Virgo has a constant drive to improve and perfect, this can lead to extreme pickiness and finickiest. They are pure, their motives are honest never malicious and they want to accomplish something.
On Anger Management
What is anger?
Anger is a normal response to such a situation. Anger can be classed as a mild or intense irritation all the way to total rage. Depending on the individual, the circumstance and their emotions, even mild irritation to you or me may cause a different person to become enraged or furious.
What is Anger Management?
Indications that a person needs Anger Management
People who have problems admitting to their anger and accepting responsibility for their actions often blame others for their problems.
People who have difficulty seeing any part of the situation as their fault. There is always something or someone to blame for their anger. Their fits of anger and temper tantrums are always blamed on something else.
The Importance of Anger Management
Many people who have anger issues find it demeaning when anger management is suggested. They see it, most of the time as a control issue and they don’t want to admit they aren’t always in control of themselves. Inability to accept their anger problem prevents them from seeking the help they require.
If someone continues down a road where they are constantly angry and acting out, it will eventually cause major problems in their life. Without anger management they will possibly face the loss of their family, the loss of their job and loss of their own sense of self.
It’s necessary to convince the person that anger management is not a punishment but rather to help them have a better quality of life. Anger management is designed to help the individual work out their problems, help them figure out why they become so angry and what they can do to keep it from happening.
It also teaches the person not to be enslaved by their emotions, their anger. Anger management is meant to teach the person techniques which prevent them from getting angry as often or for very long so they can remain in control of themselves, their words and their actions.
There are all sorts of anger management strategies. There are programs created specifically to help those with anger issues. These programs are broken down to help all ages of people, kids, teens, adults, seniors, couples and families.
These anger management programs are in place to teach or help people to work on their emotional states, from mild irritation to rage. Teaching people strategies for working out their problems and controlling their anger are important in management of the problem.
Anger may be a healthy, normal emotion but when it takes over an individual’s life making them destructive and violent, it’s a big problem. Not only does the anger destroy the individual but it also impacts everyone and everything around them. Anger management could change this individual and ensure a healthy, normal life.
If you know anyone with an anger problem you might be able to help them by learning something about the problem.
(It's not that I possess a destructive behavior due to my anger. But this article has been very helpful to me in recognizing and controlling my anger and helping others to realize such problem.)